Getting the Most Out of Nipple Clamps
Getting the Most Out of Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are a kinkier play tool that add pressure by pinching the nipples, restricting blood flow, and heightening sensation for anyone who wants to explore this sensitive, erogenous zone. They're a popular choice for dominatrixes, who may use them to tease their partners or torture them, but they're also a hot tool for beginners and more experienced users alike.
Nipples are a super-sensitive spot that can be both painful and pleasurable, and they're also a "fun and satisfying way to explore sex," says sex and relationship expert Shamyra Howard. They can be used on their own, or in conjunction with other erogenous zones such as the neck, clitoris, and penis. Adding a clamp is another level of stimulation, and nipple clamps can be a good addition to a person's oral and anal play, as well.
If you're a newbie to nipple clamps, it's best to start off slow and move your way up the intensity ladder, explains sex educator Lisa Finn. She recommends starting off with an adjustable nipple clamp, which is easier to put on because you can adjust how tight it feels.
There are a lot of different kinds of nipple clamps, with various sizes and styles available to suit your preferences and experience level. For example, a beginner's nipple clamp might have alligator-style clasps with smaller mouths than other varieties, which is ideal for beginners. Meanwhile, a more advanced option might have thicker tips that can provide more pain and pressure.
In order to get the most out of nipple clamps, you'll want to position them properly on the nipples. "You want to be sure you are placing the clamp at the base of the areola where it is most comfortable and able to cinch without being too tight," Finn says. Then, slowly tighten the clamp and gauge how it feels for the wearer. "You don't want to go in all at once and cross the line from pleasure or pleasurable pain into straight up pain."
Besides a variety of clamp sizes and styles, some nipple clamps come with vibrators, which can add extra stimulation and excitement to nipple play. For instance, this vibrating set from Lovense lets you control three vibrational speeds and 10 patterns via the free app (it's compatible with iPhone and Android) and also has a screw-adjustable design that ensures a snug fit.
If you're into more hands-free pleasure, consider this pair of vibrating nipple clamps, which attach to the nipples with magnets and are connected by a chain that extends to 12 inches. Just be sure to apply some lubricant beforehand so that the clamps don't pinch too hard.
You should also check in with your nipples after you take off the clamps to make sure they aren't sore or tender. If they turn a blue-ish color, it's probably time to take them off, as the nipples aren't getting enough blood. And, as always, it's important to make a clear communication line with your partner so that you don't cross the lines of torture into a form of abuse.